Shake It up!
I had the opportunity to participate in 3 zoom weddings in the past two weeks. Quite the novel experience. Each of them was vastly different but love and joy was all over each one.
Celebrating these unions was such a reminder that there's no "right way" to do much of anything. You and I can have the exact same goal but take two totally different routes to achieve it. And that's okay. That's life.
One thing isn't inherently better than another simply because it's tradition. Shake it up. Make it your own. Do the unexpected. And hopefully, you'll be surrounded by love and joy along the way.